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Four Years!

FLAMING FOLIAGE RELAY-2025

Yesterday marked four years of running at least a mile every day. 6,385 miles, averaging 4.37 miles a day. Longtime newsletter readers have put up with my annual post for the past three years talking about what a “running streak” is, and why it is important (to me alone!) Here’s one more blog, and since my daughter and I are embarking on a 2,600-mile hike in April, this could be the final annual streak post. We’ll see how many mornings on the Pacific Crest Trail that I can crawl out of a tent and go jogging before starting to hike!


1461 days (had a leap year) into a habit, I rarely ponder why I do it and never consider not doing it. It’s like coffee—my day ain’t starting unless the run gets done. Most of my jogging is done on a treadmill, which allows me to 1) avoid bad weather, 2) skip the decision of where to run and what to wear, and 3) listen to audiobooks. The last one might be the most important—I’ve read 61 audiobooks so far in 2025. My running streak helps me do one of the things I enjoy more than running!


This year had its challenges. I did four airport runs, a pre- and post- colonoscopy trot (ha ha), and 15 days of waking up in a tent and going for a jog. And only one day where a search and rescue mission went so long, I worried whether I might not get my run in.


In years past, I’ve run through back pain and COVID. I’m probably jinxing myself while writing this, but 2025 has been blessedly injury-free. Part of that relates to the running streak. Before I began running every day, I often took breaks in order to let body parts “heal”—a slightly pulled hamstring, a sharp pain in my calf, maybe a pulled back muscle. I still get those, but I don’t really count them as injuries anymore. When something hurts, I’ll slow my pace and maybe run one mile instead of four. It usually goes away in a couple of days.


Overall, running has made me healthier. I’ve got a pulse rate in the low 40s, and the daily activity helps keep the weight off. But everything I read says that at this age it might be better to focus more on lifting weights than on aerobic exercise. I do sit-ups and pushups every morning, but I don’t have a weightlifting routine. I’ve only got so many hours in the day. I figure I’ll weight (get it?) until something negatively impacts my running (it’s not an “if,” it’s a “when”) before looking at a lifting program.


If you’ve read this far, thanks for your attention. I know how valuable it us after reading Chris Hayes’s book The Siren’s Call about the new “attention economy.” In the meantime, I’m thinking about today—getting up earlier than normal (flying to WA to visit Mom!) and starting my fifth year of the streak.

Routine Maintenance

Routine Maintenance

I have no idea why I’ve settled on 4:52 as my wake-up time. It was even earlier back in my Air Force days (and my go-to-sleep time was much later.) I did a lot of burning the candle at both ends back then and didn’t carry the respect for a good seven-plus hours of sleep that I do now. So why am I getting up before 5 am? 

Because I got things to do! If you read my blog post after COVID Year 1, then you recognize I’m a counter. I like to keep track of things in my little day planner (books read, miles run, hot tub usage, etc.) You know—important things. Add them up at the end of the year, put them in a spreadsheet, and then hide them on my computer so no one calls me out for being weird. 

But it’s not just counting. I like a routine, too. Probably sounds funny from a guy who spent 30 years in the military, moving every 1-2 years, and deploying overseas regularly in between assignments. It was hard to keep a consistent routine, but I always gave it my best shot, especially with working out and reading. 

It’s not like routines are odd—they’ve been around forever and plenty of the “big names” are fans. The Stoic philosopher, Seneca, said, 

“Life without design is erratic.” 

A couple of decades later, Epictetus noted, 

“Progress is not achieved by luck or accident but by working on yourself daily.” 

Leap forward a couple of thousand years and I think author Annie Dillard says it best, 

“How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives. What we do with this hour, and that one, is what we are doing. A schedule defends from chaos and whim. It is a net for catching days…” 

These days, I have the time and stability for a routine—and I’ve become slightly obsessed with it. 

Breaks in my routine annoy me. 

There in lies the crux of the problem. I think those long-dead philosophers were right about the importance of designing a life, developing key habits, and incremental improvements. But they were giving advice on how to be better, not how to live better. It’s easy to look forward on a chessboard and try to figure out your next move, but you have to remember your opponent gets a move as well. In other words, life happens to you (rather than “for” you) and if you constantly shirk from external events in order to check off your “to-do” list, then guess what? 

You’re not living life. 

This truth surfaced for me when four of our children returned for the holidays from college and work and joined the remaining four of us still hanging around the homestead. As I looked at the list of planned family activities (not me! I didn’t make the schedule…) my first thought was “Oh man, I’m not going to get my run done on this day. And there’s no way I’m getting any of the rest of my ‘stuff’ done on that day.” And just as I felt that twinge of annoyance, another thought struck me. It went something like this: “You are a frikkin’ idiot. Your kids traveled from the corners of the country to celebrate a holiday that is all about life, you won’t see them again for months, and you’re worried about making “X’s” in your day planner?” If I’d been standing in front of a mirror, I wouldn’t have met my own eyes. 

I’m sure you all learned this lesson long ago, but thanks for letting me share life’s personal reminder to me. Do not underestimate the power of routines. They are an incredible tool to help you be better (and another opportunity for your kids to make fun about you getting older and set in your ways.) 

But if you want to live better, you need to embrace the unexpected opportunities that will inevitably slam into your plans for the day. Use the routine when life is routine. Chuck it when you see a chance to get out there and LIVE.

*Note: after I posted this blog, I marked it off with an “X” in my planner

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